Thursday, May 16, 2013

Parent Relationships

Relationships with our parents can be complex.  There are many more emotions going on in these relationships than maybe few others in our lifetime.  Things are not always how they seem.  We are continually negotiating our path in discovering ourselves in the context of our family.  Over time you will grow to blame them less for what’s happened to you.  They are an amazing influence in your life, and what you choose to do with your circumstances is ultimately up to you.  We can choose to not hold them accountable forever. 

Wednesday, May 15, 2013


Breakdowns seem to be a normal part of life, but are usually viewed as an aberration.  If we lived well enough, got it together, or acted correctly, we could avoid crises, goes the conventional wisdom.  But it seems into every life crisis must come. - O'Hanlon

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Dr. Corinne Scholtz, LMFT

Monday, May 13, 2013


We sometimes unconsciously create a crisis for ourselves.  We are complicit in the crisis because we know somewhere deep inside that we need to make fundamental alterations in our lives but can't find a way to do that without the crisis.


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Dr. Corinne Scholtz, LMFT


Opinions are the cheapest commodities on earth.  Everyone has a flock of opinions ready to be wished upon anyone who will accept them.  - Hill

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Dr. Corinne Scholtz. LMFT