Relationships with our parents can be complex. There are many more emotions going on in these relationships than maybe few others in our lifetime. Things are not always how they seem. We are continually negotiating our path in discovering ourselves in the context of our family. Over time you will grow to blame them less for what’s happened to you. They are an amazing influence in your life, and what you choose to do with your circumstances is ultimately up to you. We can choose to not hold them accountable forever.