Appearances

Always look deeper than appearances.  People who appear to have everything, or everything together, are also people who experience deep pain.  They may try to have everything together as a way to control life.  No matter how together someone appears, they too will have life happen to them. 

Clumsiness

You may always be a bit clumsy in some area of your life.  This is okay.  This makes you interesting and fun to be around! 

Graciousness

Graciousness is hard to find now-a-days.  Be a gracious person.  Sometimes doing the right thing is not the easiest thing.  

Dignity

People will leave you.  You will leave people.  Always handle these relationships with as much dignity and grace as possible. 

Dreaming Big

There will be a handful of people who really help to shape who you are, who you become.  Their ideas will become your ideas.  Their lives will open up possibilities in your life.  Maybe these people will help you to dream big within your own life. 

Wisdom

Listen and talk to as many older people as you can.  They will have wisdom to share.  It is also a special gift for them to talk about their life and memories with someone who cares.